The nature of Masculine Love

Like everything in the physical world — human Love also has a dualistic nature.

Godly love is universal.
It’s a perfect acceptance and seeing the beauty & the truth in everything that exists.

Feminine love is the love of the mother.

Feminine love is the one we all know as love — beautiful, nurturing, heart-warming. It’s the hugs, kisses, warmth in the chest area, and a sense of beauty and belonging.

Masculine love is the love of the father.

In one word, masculine love is the Truth.

It always assumes faith, that you are strong enough to handle the truth — no matter how uncomfortable. It’s assuming, that the truth will eventually lead to more clarity, simplicity and create space for the feminine love. It cuts out the bullshit and complexity so that growth can happen and feminine love can flourish.

The faces of masculine love

Your best friend telling you you’re bullshitting yourself and tells you that you are using excuses not to live fully. He won’t let you pass with your bullshit, because he loves you. He knows you can do better. It’s thanks to knowing the truth, that you can grow further.

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Fear of the truth

If you fear seeing and accepting the truth, there is only one reason for that: you believe you wouldn’t handle it. That’s a victim mentality. Masculine love penetrates this fear with faith: “I believe in you that’s why I’m telling you the truth”. When you have an experience that someone believes you even if you don’t, it pulls you high and gives you an enormous amount of strength.

The perfect synergy

The more truth is exposed and lived by the masculine, the more it can be nurtured by the feminine.

The truth — even though painful — always wins in the long-term. It’s the basis of integrity.

You can take the Masculine and Feminine principle and apply it to the individual psyche, relationship as a unit, a family, company, or the entire economy. The principle is the same.

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The truth of the Nice Guys

Nice Guys live their lives using white lies, wondering why life’s difficult and unfair. They get lost in the complexity of trying to be perfect. They don’t believe they could handle the emotional tension from saying the truth out loud. It’s understandable — they’ve been conditioned for that their entire life.

Get courageous and take action!

Get started and just ask yourself this question:

“What is the area of my life, where I am lying to myself the most?”

It’s not an easy question.
It’s also not for everyone.
It takes balls and masculine love to answer this question honestly.

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