The Masculinity of today is in crisis.

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“Men are the perpetrators.
The tyrants of women and of the world.
There is too much masculine energy.”

And the cherry on top of all this crap:
“Toxic masculinity.”

Too many men today feel so much fear, that they just obey.

They obey their women, their bosses, their own teams…

If you’re hesitating with the answer, you’re probably sabotaging your success.

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“Would you rather achieve your goals or be happy?”

Recently I’ve asked this question to one of my clients.
He was thinking.

“Well…”

He really took his time.

“I would…”

I could feel the intensity of his thinking.

“I think I would rather achieve my goals.”

He said, hesitantly.

“Why?”

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If I ask you: “Why do you always have to screw up?” and you’re 5 years old, you’re screwed.

We all have heard these as kids:
“What’s wrong with you?”,
“Why don’t you ever listen to me?”,
“Why don’t you respect me?”,

never feel good.

But when you’re a 5-year-old and you don’t have critical reasoning ability, these questions can a lot of harm.

As a child…

Busting the greatest myth of our times in less than 2 minutes.

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Truth hurts, right?
No, it doesn’t.

So what is that thing that hurts then?

The pain of the truth doesn’t come from the truth itself, but from realizing the lie, that’s been there the whole time.

That’s why the longer you postpone sharing the truth, the more it “hurts”.

The more it shakes your ground.
The more it breaks…

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Like everything in the physical world — human Love also has a dualistic nature.

Godly love is universal.
It’s a perfect acceptance and seeing the beauty & the truth in everything that exists.

Human love is dualistic.
It has its masculine and feminine poles.

Feminine love is the love of the mother.

Feminine love is the one we all know as love — beautiful, nurturing, heart-warming. …

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Discover the reason why you shouldn’t be!

I used to have an obsessive fear of being weird.

When I was 26, I actually came to the therapist for the first time with a clear intent: to assure myself, that I’m normal.

This is not a joke!

When the therapist asked me what I came with I said:

Maros Cincura

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